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Miriam WheelerTo progress in your career, you have to get out of your comfort zone, says Goldman Sachs’ Miriam Wheeler, who was recently named a partner at the firm – a role that will come into effect in the New Year.

“If you’re never uncomfortable, you’re not growing professionally. And even if you fail, you will learn valuable lessons that are relevant for the next undertaking,” she says. When those successes inevitably come, she thinks it’s important to celebrate as a team. “We have a tendency to jump right into the next deal, but giving the team recognition and celebrating wins together helps morale and overall job satisfaction,” she notes.

Exploring Different Areas of Finance

Wheeler joined Goldman as a summer intern in securities in 2004, working in mortgage sales for two years before moving to the finance group. She had always wanted to work in real estate, with a specific interest in land use policy and city infrastructure. She found her perfect fit in the Real Estate Financing Group, a role she finds continuously challenging and interesting. “As a deal junkie, I love the thrill of when a big project comes together for a client,” she says.

In fact, the professional achievement she is most proud of so far was seeing Goldman Sachs vault to the top of the 2017 CMBS (Commercial Mortgage-Backed Securities) league table. “It was truly a team effort where we delivered on a lot of transactions. Not only did it represent a huge leap in position, but it signified how relevant we had become to our clients,” she says.

The GS real estate lending platform has expanded considerably in recent years. While the team previously focused only on securitized lending, they now have a much wider array of products to offer clients, including real estate loans that sit in the Goldman Sachs’ Bank USA, which clients have found to be a useful and relevant product offering.

Helping Women Advance in the Industry

As Wheeler surveys college resumes, she is surprised that there are still so many more men applying to roles in the finance sector right out of college than women. “We need to continue to recruit women and educate them on the benefits of a long-term career in finance, as many are self-selecting out of the industry before they even have a chance to begin a career,” she says. In fact, when she looks back over her own career, she notes that initially a lot of the senior positions were predominantly held by men, which can be a barrier to women when they only see men across the table. She is encouraged that the mix is changing, particularly among her client counterparts. “It’s vital to show women who are considering a career here that it is a viable place for them to have a successful long-term career.”

She encourages women who enter the field to build relationships with peers at their level, as those peers will also become more senior over time. “Build as many relationships as possible both internally and externally.—get to know your peers and clients of both genders. You can build great relationships by delivering excellent execution and client service, even if you don’t have a lot in common with someone on the surface.”

As a woman at Goldman Sachs, she has found the firm to be very supportive of women’s family needs, including a robust maternity leave program that she took advantage of when both her daughters, now ages 1 and 3, were born, as Goldman offers 16 weeks of paid leave and the option to extend maternity leave as well. Goldman also offers a month of paternity leave and has recently begun to offer a milk shipping program, allowing women traveling on business to ship breast milk home to their baby. In addition, she has taken advantage of the firm’s onsite back-up childcare, when her regular childcare is not an option. “All the support is incredibly beneficial when you are trying to balance your family and your career,” she says.

Looking ahead to her daughters’ future, Wheeler is excited to think about opportunities that will be open to them. “We all have the responsibility to create an environment where future generations of women can thrive,” she says.

That ethos expands to her philanthropy work as well; as a board member for WIN Partners, she is proud of her involvement with a group that is dedicated to helping homeless women and children transition from shelters to their own homes. Over the past year, WIN has supported 10,000 homeless individuals, including 6,000 children.

Guest Contribution

In a rapidly changing world, stereotypes of gender are transforming many aspects of society and business culture.

Not only is motherhood no impediment to the degree of ambition and expectation women have in terms of achieving greater job and career responsibility, male attitudes to gender roles are shifting, with men more willing to make job changes and sacrifices to achieve better work and family life balance, and to contribute to their wives or partners career success. Many traditionally male or female dominated jobs are also seeing an increase in gender balance to varying degrees, particularly in the last 10 years.

While many are successfully shifting attitudes to gender-roles, narrow mindsets can still dominate in both overt or subtle ways, and both men and women can still feel limited in their freedom to advance in business or chose a career that may be perceived as atypical to generalized norms.

Whether you have experienced a little or a lot of discrimination for the body you were born in, you can have profound impact on the future of business by taking a leadership role in empowering yourself and others to go beyond gender-roles or any other perceived limitation.

This begins with committing to becoming limitless in your own mindset and addressing any unconscious judgements you may have in place. Adopt the following questions into your business mindset and become an invitation to function outside of confines based on gender or any other definition:

Are you willing to be a leader that empowers all people?

The key to continual progress where gender-role issues may arise is to first recognize that judgment, definition or discrimination of any kind, gender-based or not, will create a limitation in mindset and as a result in business. It is important to ask yourself the question, “Am I willing to be a leader for the empowerment of all?”

When you ask this question, you will step beyond oppositional thinking such as men versus women, right versus wrong, and begin to see the change you can affect with the people around you based on the possibilities available, rather than the problems and issues you think you have to overcome to succeed.

If you perceive gender-based judgment coming into play around you, or even in your own thinking, asking a question as simple as, “What else is possible here?” or “What choice is available beyond this?” will expand your thoughts beyond any barriers to include all kinds of possibilities for instigating change that you may not have previously considered.

Do you encourage contribution or competition?

The narrow-thinking that underpins gender-role stereotypes are usually accompanied by a sense of divisiveness, opposition and competition. The elements of competition are: right and wrong, win and lose, better than and less than, proving and defending. When you function from competition you cannot acknowledge your value and capacities in their own right and you cannot receive the talents and capacities of others that could contribute to you. In business this means potentially losing money, projects, and opportunities by not being willing to come together and take advantage of what everyone can bring to the table.

Eliminate oppositional thinking and develop a contribution-based mindset. Ask yourself, “What do I know that no one else does?” “What do others know that I don’t that would contribute to bringing this to fruition?” “Who or what can I add to the business/project today that would contribute to this becoming greater than what I can create alone?” “What are we capable of together that we could not create alone?”

With a contribution mindset, you can be in pole position and invite others to springboard off you to create even greater. This in turn can challenge you to look at what else is possible for you and what you are capable of that you haven’t acknowledged. A contribution-based perspective empowers you and others to out-create alongside each other, rather than compete against each other from oppositional positions.

Are you willing to be a game-changer?

As a leader in life and business, would you ever truly allow any definition, judgment or limitation to be relevant, significant or dominant? A limitation is only real if you decide it is. When you recognize that no judgment or belief can hold you back, you can ask questions like, “How can I out-create and go beyond this with ease?” and “If this wasn’t a problem, what possibility would it be?” and see possibilities, opportunities and advantages where others see none. A true leader is willing to be a game-changer, not just a player.

When you are willing to acknowledge that any limitation is only relevant if you choose to make it so, you will recognize your ability to create a different future and be an invitation for others to do the same. With an empowered perspective, gender-based roles, biases and limitations lose relevance in the face of our commitment to embracing and levering all differences to create more in our businesses and organizations.

The glasshammer.com does not necessarily endorse or agree with view of guest contributors or their organizations or affiliations.

About Doris Schachenhofer

After completing her social work studies in Vienna, Doris Schachenhofer worked with children, homeless people, delinquent teenagers and prisoners transitioning back into the real world.
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By Nicki Gilmour

It is the holiday season and end of year.

Many of us are sprinting towards the finish line, busy with deadlines and projects that need to be cleared off our desk this week so that we can take a break over the next few weeks.

Taking a break is very helpful. But, how do you really use your break to feel renewal and even perhaps growth? I believe that learning from the good and the bad and having a growth mindset gives us what we need to be better, more effective and have more of everything we want.

These past few years, I have become very interested in neuroscience and how our conscious and unconscious mind works for us and against us. This has been in service of helping my coaching clients break life-long paradigms implicitly formed via constructs over time from birth which just don’t work for them. How we see things matters since we evaluate our options through that developed over time lens. For example, people who operate with a lens of loss will have a tougher time seeing the opportunity or gains in a situation and rather see what they don’t have or didn’t get. Opposite to that example, are people who have an over tuned mental model around aspiration as they will goal set around aspirations without a grounding on the resources and factors that are needed to get there.

It is the ability to be able to create and use strategic insight by literally conduct ongoing self-appraisal accurately, that allows you to know what strengths can be deployed to achieve your goals; real ones that matter. Goals that enable growth and renewal one thought, feeling and action at a time.

Here are some TEDx talks to enjoy over the holidays as a change of scene and some “off-task” time can be very good for the brain!

Happy Holidays to theglasshammer readers and if you wish to have an exploratory coaching call (at no charge) to see if coaching can help you, then email nicki@evolvedpeople.com

Wendy CohenAdvocate for yourself and know your value; don’t sell yourself short, Wendy Cohen advises associates.

Cohen states, “You have to ask for what you want and recognize what your contribution is; then refuse to feel diminished, intimidated or not as worthy as your male counterparts just because you may have different demands on your time and elements of your life to balance.”

Cohen never conceded her talents and thus was able to parlay a temporary downshift with a part-time schedule into becoming a partner.

A Mutually Beneficial Arrangement Leads to Career and Firm Success

Directly from law school Cohen started at her current firm’s predecessor, Rosenman & Colin LLP, which merged with Katten in 2002. She joined the firm’s then-corporate department, and during her second year began working with Fred Santo, a partner who specialized in financial services. In addition to public commodity deals, she earned a lot of experience with private funds, now commonly known as hedge funds.

But even though she was a well-regarded associate on an upward trajectory, she removed herself from the partner track to focus on building a family, paring back to four days a week.

After having her twins in 1995, Cohen came back to work three days a week when they were six months old. While she enjoyed her client work, the lack of technology at the time made it too challenging to effectively juggle home and work, and when she became pregnant with her third child, she left the firm again at the end of 1996.

In 2001, Cohen reached back out to her former partner to see if she could work on a project basis; he welcomed her back and she worked as a consultant, billing time directly to the client. After ramping up to working in the office three days a week, it wasn’t long before the firm realized that they wanted to formalize the arrangement, and they offered her a partnership.

As her kids grew and her available time expanded, Cohen gradually extended her days in the office. In 2011 she was named a partner, and two years later she became a capital partner. “I was so proud to become a partner while balancing time in the office and at home,” she says, adding that the arrangement has been mutually beneficial. “Fred is retiring at the end of this year, but I will be able to take over those clients with whom I have worked for 25 years. The firm maintained their investment in me, and now they have the benefit of retaining clients with a seamless transition.”

And as she says, she now is able to devote all her time to the firm. “I provide a tremendous value-add that they would have missed out on had they not allowed me to come back part-time; and at the same time I appreciate the value they saw in me. We all would have lost if they hadn’t been committed to this non-traditional arrangement.”

As current co-chair of the financial services department, Cohen continues to work with clients, including advising her first private investment fund that’s investing in cryptocurrency, and also is focused on business development and lateral hiring.

Perspective That Comes With Experience

Looking back on her career, Cohen appreciates how things change when you don’t even notice. “At some point you realize life is finite, and not to sweat the small stuff—and as they say, most of it is. I am glad I spent time with my kids when they were growing up…I certainly didn’t rush life away during that chapter, but I also didn’t necessarily appreciate that it would change the way it has.”

That wise perspective is one she is able to share with younger professionals as they decide how to forge their paths. While she feels fortunate that firm management allowed her the bandwidth and flexibility she enjoyed, she realizes that although it’s better than it used to be and more common for attorneys to experience balance, it’s not yet where it should be.

“My path should not be anomalous; it should be available to all women who choose to downshift, without being viewed as less successful, committed or capable,” Cohen says.

While other women partners she works with might have taken different paths, she thinks it’s important for all associates to see that there’s not one standard for reaching the goal of partner. “Katten management has been making great strides, but as an industry, we still have work to do for women to realize there is value to their contribution not only for themselves individually, but also for the whole firm.”

And she advises women who are her peers to realize that although they might have had to make sacrifices to achieve their success, they shouldn’t hold that against the new generation. “We can nurture our younger women attorneys in different ways and allow them to decide for themselves the best way to provide value, even if it’s different from what you did.”

But she realizes that there are other ways that being a women can be tenuous. For example one of her clients is a seed investor in Glam Squad so at a recent meeting of 100 Women in Finance, where she co-chairs the Legal Peer Advisory committee, two of the founders talked to the group, then stylists came and “glammed” them.

Although Cohen grappled briefly with whether that would undercut the group, she realized second guessing the event was unreasonable. After all, they have a business model that is fascinating and substantive, and there’s nothing wrong with looking your best and feeling more confident. “We can do things our own way. It doesn’t diminish us; it’s just a different way of networking and bonding.”

She also is working on hosting a panel in January sponsored by 100 Women in Finance with the former managing director of a large private equity firm speaking about women on boards and how to advocate for board seats.

Cohen is active in Katten’s “Women Leadership Forum,” recently attending a women’s networking event at the Knicks game. “The firm is very committed to diversity, and expends a great deal of energy and time nurturing women,” she says adding that the firm is “Mansfield Certified” for excellence in diversity.

In her spare time, Cohen also volunteers closer to home, as the past president of the Jewish Federation in Westport. And she loves to spend time with her husband and now- adult kids—travelling and eating and ideally combining the two, she laughs.

Clare MurphyHaving served in customer-facing roles for more than 20 years, WEX’s Clare Murphy has learned an important truth.

“Most people believe the customer has to come first, but I’ve found that the key is to get the team dynamic right first instead. If you have that, they will naturally put the customers at the center, and you have a win/win.”

And, she adds, a key component of building that team rapport is collaborating to find out how you can be a better manager. “Ask them for feedback on an ongoing basis so you can fine-tune your own performance,” she recommends.

Collaboration is the key to success

Murphy ran her own consultancy for seven years buying corporate travel, and became curious why there was a general lack of innovation in the payments sphere, despite existing options such as payment cards. So when she was approached by Travelport where she had previously worked, she jumped at the chance to help with its newly formed payment division. As only the second hire, she helped build its capabilities from the ground up, helping set up the office and spearheading major bids.

About two years into her tenure there, WEX approached her with an appealing role as commercial director, where she’s now been a year. For Murphy, it’s the perfect intersection of the travel and tech/payment industries that she knows will continue to provide exciting developments. “We have such a fantastic opportunity to make the payment experience more simple and efficient for our customers, and it’s exciting to be on the front line,” she says.

Over the past year she has helped lead the transformation of WEX’s commercial team in Europe, and she has been delighted to see the evidence of their efforts in living the WEX values, specifically related to integrity, she says, adding that their recent appointment to the “Great Place to Work” list reinforces they are on the right track.

Rising With the Support of Others

Over the course of her career, Murphy knows she has been fortunate to have worked with senior leaders who were invested in her career, and assisted with the opportunities and networking that would allow her to move to the next level. And she was fortunate to have a mentor in former supervisor Elaine Halt, whose gravitas and ability to help teams coalesce around a goal was particularly inspirational. “When she left, we were all devastated, but I still keep in touch with her. Even though I haven’t worked with her in 15 years, I still see her regularly and appreciate her counsel and feedback that has helped me throughout my career,” Murphy says.

In her position at the cross section of travel and payments, she has become a part of a number of industry groups that have strengthen and motivated her professional development, including; Women in Payments, the Emerging Payments Association, Women in Fintech and Women Travel Executives. Not only does Murphy see personally benefit, but she makes sure that her female and male colleagues do too. She regularly invites junior team members to sessions, giving them experience and exposure to the great work these groups offer.

Balance Leads to a Full Life

Over the years, Murphy has realized the importance of not letting yourself get caught up in the day-to-day struggle of determining what is and isn’t urgent. She has learned to take a long-term view to find time to focus on things that are important, but not necessarily urgent, such as professional development and networking. That helps her find a good balance where she calendars those in, and treats them as equally important to other items on her to-do list.

And of course, her top priority remains her family – her husband and two children. As an “extreme sports” family, they take time to build bonds by skiing and scuba diving, having just returned from a trip to Cancun.

They also work together to fundraise for the Bone Cancer Research Trust, and have raised more than £2,000 while continuing to do charity events in support. Her daughter even donated her hair to charity. While she is proud of the money they have raised, there has been another important byproduct that comes from having her children see her ask for money and instilling a sense of philanthropic interest.

In addition, Murphy has been on the Board of Governors for her children’s school for eight years, overseeing strategy and curriculum. “It’s been a pleasure to see the school flourish, and I look forward to returning to even more volunteering when my career is less busy,” she says.

Serene Gallegos

By Serene Gallegos

According to the U.S. Bureau of Labor, by 2020 there will be more than one million more computer science-related job openings in the U.S. than graduating college students qualified to fill them.

And it’s not just computer science careers that are changing; at the same time, automation is reshaping the way we work across professions. So, what does that mean as we try to prepare today’s students for tomorrow’s jobs – many that don’t even exist quite yet?

As a former elementary teacher, I know firsthand that teachers face a unique challenge to build lessons that are engaging and relevant for the future. Plus, it’s easy to become overwhelmed with the resources that may or may not be available – particularly around STEM and computer science. These subjects used to be relegated to math and science, but in today’s digital-first environment, technology permeates throughout everything we do, and therefore everything we teach.

To successfully navigate this new era of technology, students must be problem-solvers armed with skills to compose a successful workforce in the future. To achieve this, we need to implement a new way of thinking – namely, computational thinking – into the classroom. That’s part of the reason why I made the move to the private sector. Today, I work at Tata Consultancy Services (TCS) to lead a program equipping teachers with relevant lesson plans and experiential learning activities that help bring computational thinking to life.

So, what exactly is computational thinking? It’s a higher-level problem solving process whereby students learn to decipher information and form innovative solutions. What sets computational thinking apart from traditional critical thinking is that it considers how 21st century technology overlaps with key strategies to solve any given challenge. Computational thinking goes far beyond computer science to encompass all subject areas across all industries – from social studies to physical education, or simple tasks like packing a suitcase, learning to dance, or cooking a meal.

According to a recent report released by The World Economic Forum, by 2022 more than 54 percent of employees will require re-skilling because of new and emerging technology. Computational thinking is a foundational skill for the success of the future workforce and is how we future-proof students with skills that will be relevant to any career they choose.

In general, organizations are increasingly recognizing the value of building a diverse workforce. With STEM jobs growing 50% higher than the national growth average, it’s important to engage diverse backgrounds and different problem solving perspectives in order to maximize innovation. In addition, we know that the economic impact of stable, salaried STEM jobs for women and people of color will strengthen our economy. Yet for resource-strapped school districts, it’s difficult to single-handedly retrain teachers or implement costly new technologies in the classroom that engage all students.

Additionally, women’s underrepresentation in STEM is widely reported. Surprisingly, the number of female computer science college grads is trending downward – at just 18 percent according to the latest figures. Yet, women bring a highly valuable perspective to business operations today; just look at Lyft, a company that’s built a reputation for driving gender-inclusive policies that evens the playing field between drivers and passengers. Lyft partially attributes their app design to input from female leadership. This is just one example of why critical, computational thinking is an essential tool for women that can be applied in many different ways in today’s digital-first workforce.

That’s why education-focused corporate partnerships can truly make an impact to broaden the reach of STEM skill-building. TCS unveiled Ignite My Future In School in partnership with Discovery Education to provide free, easy-to-implement lesson plans and resources for teachers that can jump-start their ability to bring computational thinking to the forefront, across subjects, and for all students.

The value of corporate-led initiatives like TCS’ Ignite My Future in School are unique in that they are designed to meet teachers where they are, regardless of experience. Whether you are a new art teacher just starting out your career, or a tenured teacher with more than twenty years under your belt, curriculum that is digestible to all is less daunting to implement, and is also the most well-received by students. In many cases, schools cannot achieve this on their own – at least, not without a costly investment that may or may not be realistic. That’s why corporations are key to help fill a void, so long as they work in tandem with school needs.

Also, corporations must be realistic that they also can’t do this alone. When building out a successful education-focused CSR initiative, it’s crucial to bring in the right partners who can successfully integrate technology into resources that will resonate well with teachers. At TCS, we chose to partner with Discovery Education, a well-established leader in teacher resources and professional development, which only strengthens awareness and the educational components of our program.

When you’re a teacher, particularly in elementary education, you must become adept at many things – not just your subject area. You gain an understanding of how to incorporate different activities to bring your classroom teaching to life. Having an arsenal of resources with a curriculum that explores all subject areas and includes lesson plans on everything from building drones to deliver pizzas, to how to spur activism as it relates to an ecological crisis, is so powerful. That is why looking to corporations who are willing to step up to the plate, take accountability and address building a teacher’s capacity to the best of their ability is so critical in 2018.

My experience as a teacher has proved very valuable in helping TCS consider ways that our CSR program can positively influence the STEM pipeline in our country. I would stress then, that for other corporations’ programs to be just as successful, they should look to diversify the minds behind it and ensure that they are employing those from all walks of life who can bring unique perspectives to the table. When businesses take the first step, but also work in tandem with experts and thought leaders that can help guide their efforts to make a difference, they have the power to shape and propel us towards a prosperous future.

By Nicki Gilmour

Let’s face it, we are always changing, evolving and adapting to survive. Imagine how you can use change to thrive.  

Last week, we talked about themes from 2018 and what was memorable to you. What is your “theme” going into 2019? Is it a new theme? Are you carrying around a theme that you no longer want? Is it even your theme? Or is it what you think you ‘should’ be doing according to other people’s wisdom? Or even due to ‘norms’ for people at your stage of your career or life?  

Think about what you want and then think about what you have to do to get there. Simple right? Sounds like goal setting, right? And it is mostly. But something to also consider is the behavioral piece of achieving goals because if you have a goal and your actual actions are not aligning then it might not be as easy as it looks on paper.  

What do you have to do? And will you do it? What is behind what you tell yourself? 

Who do you have to be? Who do you want to be in 2019?  

Book a free exploratory chat with Nicki to see if coaching will help you get you further, faster.

“My proudest achievement is that I have grown my entire career from grass roots level, with fearless determination.” says PwC’s Sunaina Kohli.

Intuitive Decisions – Dynamic Opportunities

Kenyan born, Kohli was raised and educated in the UK. She left university halfway through her law degree for personal reasons and was immediately offered an opportunity by the CEO of a small group of private investors. She worked her way up from an executive assistant to project manager and ultimately chief of staff to the CEO. At that point she felt she had tapped out her growth opportunities, so she took a six-month sabbatical to travel the world, a long-time ambition of hers.

Kohli started in Kenya with the mantra “The plan is there is no plan,” and within eight weeks she found herself in New Delhi, India, where she was offered a contract with an aviation and aerospace consultancy firm to work on government-related projects. Fast forward 10 months and a PwC recruiter discovered her through LinkedIn and hired her to join the Middle East firm.

A year in, she was presented with an opportunity to join PwC’s Global Human Capital team in New York, followed by a stint in Washington DC, working on the Global Human Capital transformation agenda, impacting the PwC Network of approximately 250,000 people.

This role evolved to an invitation to work at their Global Human Capital Leadership office and allowed her to extend her scope across the firm’s priority projects which included Diversity & Inclusion, Wellbeing, Talent Development, Workforce of the Future and change management to support the implementation of new technologies aligned with PwC’s digital transformation agenda.

Her work demanded a great amount of travel, visiting over 35 cities around the world in just three years. More recently, she was invited to rejoin the Middle East firm to drive the People Experience agenda regionally, focusing on priorities such as Wellbeing and Diversity and Inclusion.

“Very early in life, I learned that failure and hardship are incredible drivers to success, to the point that my tenacity defines my professional brand” said Kohli, who finds it’s a quality that her leaders have always appreciated and has led to many inspiring opportunities. Following your intuition can lead to new and unpredictable paths that ultimately challenge and define you.

“My decision to move my life across continents was a result of my intuition, driven by hunger for the next big challenge,” she says.

Navigating the Working World—Making a Difference

Through the Diversity and Inclusion agenda, she is proud to have the opportunity to be a strong advocate and influence, to directly and positively impact the advancement of professional women.

Kohli’s passion for supporting this agenda comes from her experiences; in the UK she worked as a volunteer to support women who struggled through domestic abuse. Kohli developed curriculums to support them on what can be a challenging journey to leave extreme situations, through to coping methods and life skills that would help them navigate their newfound independence and responsibilities.

She also taught underprivileged and disabled children to rise above their emotions through obstacles and challenges, using her classes as a way to help disabled children share commonalities with their more abled siblings. “Parents found this experience extremely rewarding as it finally gave them a leveled field for all their children to come together and share a collective interest and activity,” she added.

While in India, she worked with orphaned girls, teaching them the same types of skills, but also about empowerment. A self-taught henna artist, she was able to share that skill so that they would always have a safe means to make a living, as well as an emotional outlet through creative self-expression.

Her time spent across continents—from the gender-dominant environments of India and the Middle East to the more gender-balanced United States—has been eye opening. She feels fortunate to have worked with so many inspiring female leaders, who showed her that you can have it all if you want it, and she is eager to share this perspective now that she has returned to the Middle East; “We need to be more mindful about spotlighting our strong and successful female talent in the Middle East – you cannot be what you cannot see, so greater visibility of the incredible women that work among us is essential.”

Kohli also recognizes career sponsorship and mentoring as drivers to develop the female talent pipeline. She views sponsorship as a career game changer and has had a number of colleagues, both male and female, advocating on her behalf, vastly impacting her career progression. In addition, she has found that mentors have played a huge role in her development.

Describing the difference, she explains that mentors help you see what you may not see in yourself, pushing you closer to your aspirations; while sponsors advocate for you and believe in you. “It’s indescribably life-changing when inspiring and successful leaders see something in you and take the time to know and understand your capabilities better than you know yourself,” she notes.

Kohli’s commitment to empowering others culminated recently in joining her colleagues to successfully deliver the first women’s empowerment workshop to over 180 women from PwC offices across Saudi Arabia. This was a historic moment that defines the firm’s commitment to gender equality, especially as a UN HeForShe Impact 10 Champion.

 Creating Human Impact

All these initiatives and projects coincide and directly correlate with the work Kohli is doing for the PwC Wellbeing agenda. Specifically, she aspires to make a difference in employees’ personal and professional wellbeing and domino positive effects on communities the firm operates in. “In today’s incredibly dynamic environment, where change is the only certainty, people are having to work harder and faster than ever. Through managing wellbeing, our people will become more resilient and develop the capacity to thrive in demanding situations, helping them recover from setbacks and ultimately be able to bring their best selves to all they do,” she explained.

Kohli added, “Now, more than ever, it is extremely important to me to make a positive, human impact on people’s lives in what is a very disruptive and technology-driven world.”This ethos shines through in her philanthropic endeavors. Having lived on five continents and traveled extensively around the world, Kohli has always tried to bring a meaningful and positive impact to local communities, usually in environments when there is no one to guide, nurture and help an individual grow, she explained.

From her career to her volunteer work, all of Kohli’s pursuits have shared a common thread that allowed her to focus on her strengths. She concluded, “I am a very agile learner, a key skill to future-proof yourself in today’s increasingly fast evolving world where successful professionals will need to constantly adapt to remain relevant.” With this, today she has the opportunity to directly and positively impact those around her.

Marci EisensteinHave optimism and be proactive, Marci Eisenstein advises young women.

“Work on developing your professional excellence and seize the opportunities that are presented,” she says, adding that she wishes she herself had known earlier the value of never being afraid to speak in your own voice. “People will appreciate your authenticity, and you’ll be more effective the quicker you learn that you should be who you are.”

But that includes balancing confidence with humility, since, as she points out, no one wants to work with lawyers who are know-it-alls. “Often women err the other way and project insecurity, so it’s also important not to be self-deprecating or downplay your work, but ask for the opportunities to grow,” advice she has put into practice throughout her career.

Setting Records With Nearly 40 Years at the Firm

With a father who was a doctor, Eisenstein always knew she wanted to be a professional, and law appeared to be an excellent fit, given her love of writing and speaking – and distaste for blood. She went directly from college to law school, joining Schiff Hardin immediately after graduation, and has spent an illustrious near-four decades there.

Although she knew she wanted to be a litigator, she has decided that the placement of her office helped dictate her future career path, sandwiched as it was right between the head of litigation and the first lieutenant. They stopped in her office and asked her if she would participate in some class action work for a long-standing client, to which she enthusiastically responded yes, knowing now that those first days helped guide her career.

Eisenstein became a class action litigator, handling numerous cases in the insurance space. Along the way she became the longest tenured female lawyer at the firm, a rank she will hold until she leaves, as the women who were more senior when she arrived have moved on. Three years ago she became the firm’s first female managing partner in its 150-year history.

“It’s gratifying to have had a seat on the firm’s executive committee to have influence in helping maintain our independence and unique culture,” she says. For Schiff Hardin that includes maintaining values focused on collegiality — mentoring and supporting a diverse group – as well as a commitment to pro bono work and loyalty to one another. “This is a place where we enjoy working together and develop deep, strong client relationships,” she says. “As a group we have an unwavering commitment to professional excellence, and having a role in maintaining that special culture has been a source of great personal and professional pride.”

In addition, Eisenstein is proud of the body of work she has built up, most notably helping secure a reversal of a case that had resulted in a billion dollar judgment. “Going through the process and achieving that reversal taught me an enormous amount about how to lead a team through tough times with tenacity,” she says.

Developing Opportunities for Women

Currently Eisenstein is proud of the firm’s leadership in the #MeToo movement in the Chicago area; having recently participated in a regional effort organized by the Chicago Foundation for Women that encouraged all participating businesses to host facilitated discussions for employees around a set of questions about how the issue manifests itself in their professional and personal lives.

All six offices of the firm took a lunch break and brought in the entire workforce, from staff to the most senior people, to talk about these issues. She participated in a session that included nearly 80 people — men and women, from new staff members to practice group leaders. “The dialogue was so open and authentic, and I was proud to be in a place that fosters this type of discussion,” she says, adding that she believes they were the only law firm that participated.

“We addressed a lot of issues and while we don’t have all the answers, the idea that there can be such frank and open discussion was very gratifying and goes back to the values of our firm we are able to maintain,” she says.

She herself sees that one of the main barriers for women relates to the gender imbalance in equity partnership throughout the industry, since it’s easier for young women to see a path to success when there are ample role models. While there are strides to be made, she is proud that Schiff Hardin is ahead of its peer firms in terms of equity partnership with 25% being women, compared to the industry average of 19%. “I like to believe this is a place that attracts women based on our model,” she says, adding that the perspectives offered by diverse teams has helped their own decision making. “We look for every opportunity to make sure we put forward the best team from experience and expertise, and that includes the diversity perspective,” Eisenstein says.

For initiatives to be successful, they have to emanate from the top down, she notes, and as the founder and original chair of the Diversity Committee, she has seen high levels of support to help it grow into a powerhouse committee where partners participate actively and associates participate in the firm’s multiple affinity groups.

Another barrier many women may face is the continued focus on hours over performance. “Too frequently workplaces value the time clock more than the effectiveness and efficiency of the work, and that approach can negatively affect women and how we manage all our responsibilities,” she says.

When she first started at the firm, there weren’t the same type of women-oriented mentoring or advocacy programs that there are today, so she did what she could, initially finding another colleague who was pregnant at the same time and working together to develop a proposal for how their maternity leave should be handled. Now of course, the firm offers numerous programs for gender-neutral parental leave, mindful return and other online courses that help parents navigate this tricky time.

A Passion for A Cause

Eisenstein’s oldest daughter was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes at the age of three, when Eisenstein had just became a new partner. That insight into raising a child with a chronic condition has confirmed her family’s dedication to raising funds for finding a cure. She has served as chair for the Chicago gala, raising more than $5 million for JDRF research, and remains active in the Illinois chapter of JDRF. “When you are moving an organization through change and also taking care of a child with a condition they face day in and day out, you have to have resilience and optimism in life and work,” she says.

Eisenstein also enjoys spending time with her husband of 42 years, and her four granddaughters who all live locally.