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Su Lin Wee“The thread that ties my previous roles together, and I am most grateful for, is strong mentorship,” says Su Lin Wee. “But it’s a two-way street: you have to show up, put in the hours and deliver results.”

Wee, who is based in Singapore, delves into the foundational experiences that influenced her approach to leadership and her dedication to uplifting others – especially women.

From architecture to asset management

From the outset of her career, Wee has been inspired by strong women leaders. After earning her master’s in architecture, she joined Singapore’s Urban Redevelopment Authority (URA) and played a key role in shaping the modern urban landscape of Singapore’s historically-rich Bras Basah and Bugis districts in the heart of the city.

“Working directly with successful women leaders was a great start to my career,” Wee says. “I served under many high performing women who were in CEO, Chief Planner and department head roles during my time at the URA. Starting out in an environment with strong female leadership made it feel natural, and I was fortunate to have great role models who gave me many opportunities to learn and grow.”

When Wee transitioned from urban planning to real estate development and asset management, she again found the support of mentors to be instrumental to her growth.

As a development lead for Asian developer, CapitaLand, Wee signed up for the challenge of delivering a $1.2 billion USD retail and office development in Singapore from the ground up, while facing a tight budget, short timeline and a competing developer nearby who already had a head start.

“Despite my prior experience with previous projects, stepping into the role of a development lead for such a large project presented new challenges. Managing a team that included individuals senior to me, in both age and experience, required respectful navigation and was a two-way street.”

Wee adds, “I had to work hard to earn the trust of the team to show them that I was the right person to lead the project. I benefited from the great support from my manager who gave me invaluable lessons in building trust and leadership skills, through his advocacy and close mentorship.”

The project was completed on time and within budget, and Wee speaks fondly of the great team rapport and lasting relationships that she built throughout this experience.

Wee’s experience at CapitaLand helped prepare her for her current role as Head of Asset Management for Southeast Asia, Hong Kong & China at PGIM Real Estate, which manages $206 billion USD of assets globally, including $9.4 billion USD in Asia Pacific. She is thrilled to engage in fulfilling work across various geographies and diverse teams to make a positive impact.

“The funds we manage generate more than financial value–we deploy solutions to ensure that buildings we construct or enhance are more sustainable, energy-efficient and help conserve water.”

Committed to empowering her team

Given the pivotal role mentorship has played in shaping Wee as a leader, it’s unsurprising that she is a passionate advocate for others, taking a strong interest in her team members’ growth, even if it means that they might move on to another team or company.

“I encourage openness about career aspirations. If there is another role beyond asset management that they are interested in, then I provide honest feedback on their fit for the role. If they choose to leave because it’s what’s good for them and makes them happy, then I am happy, since I want them to be able to grow.”

Wee also makes it a point of ensuring that everyone’s voice is heard.

“I value the diversity in our teams and always encourage some of our quieter, more reserved team members to speak up. Going around the table and giving them space to express their points of view lets everyone benefit from different perspectives.”

Wee firmly believes that a positive, encouraging environment is key to getting women to speak up more and make their opinions heard at work. “There’s no need to wait until you’re in a leadership position to be an advocate. Simple day-to-day acts like showing an active interest in a colleague’s ideas on a call, or helping them develop these ideas, can go a long way.”

Recently completing a PGIM leadership training, Wee reflects on how the experience reminded her that asserting one’s viewpoint can be challenging, even for leaders.

“As women, we sometimes second-guess ourselves before speaking or voicing our opinions. It turned out that many of the attendees at the training sessions, regardless of gender, nationality, background or even how confident they looked to me, shared that they sometimes felt hesitant to speak in a group and would rather stay silent than risk saying something contradictory.”

Wee continues, “Once we get over that initial hesitation, we realize, ‘Hey, the world hasn’t come crashing down, regardless of what we’ve said. Now, it’s just muscle memory to focus on contributing to discussions and bringing everyone forward.’”

Quieting the inner critic

Wee admits to being the hardest on herself, often setting increasingly high standards for her accomplishments.

“I am my own worst critic, and I believe many women face this too. We tend to be hard on ourselves, but it’s important to also recognize when we’ve earned our place through hard work, skills and experience.”

Creating networking opportunities for current and future women leaders

Uplifting others beyond the workplace, Wee is the co-chair of the Urban Land Institute’s (ULI) Women’s Leadership Initiative (WLI), a non-profit that focuses on raising the visibility and number of women leaders in the real estate industry. In her role, Wee creates programs that provide opportunities for younger women to network with industry leaders in an informal environment.

“The WLI programs we plan aim to break down barriers and allow women to listen and connect with senior leaders.” She asserts, “Sometimes, all you need is a friendly face and an introduction.”

From her experience, Wee understands the impact that these relationships can have and is looking forward to continuing her work with the WLI in the future.

“It’s invigorating to interact with other women and help one another network and grow.”

Outside of work, Wee enjoys running to stay fit and find time to think. Despite her busy schedule as a mother and professional, she regularly makes time for a run – even while on vacation with her family. No matter where she travels, she always packs her running shoes, ready to explore her new environment.

By Jessica Robaire

“Over the years, I’ve not always felt confident walking into certain scenarios as a brown, Pakistani, Muslim woman,” says Dania Shahzad. “When I reflect on my previous self, the same things I was nervous about are now what make me feel the most confident and empowered.”

Shahzad speaks to finding inspiration in her family, building confidence in the face of adversity, and how she lives her life steadfast in her conviction that women can do anything.

Finding Her Footing

Shahzad was inspired by her father’s successful career in the financial industry when she chose to major in business during her freshman year of college.

“My dad and I have similar personalities – we are both bold, confident, personable people. I used to go to ‘Take Your Child to Work Day’ and the New York Stock Exchange as a child, and it was so exciting. I was always interested in his world.”

As much as she found her father’s career in the financial services industry compelling, Shahzad recognized that, depending on the role, it could come at the price of long days and working weekends. However, she was determined to find a position and company that encouraged and supported a strong work/life balance while giving her the opportunity to learn, grow, and explore various facets of the financial services industry.

After interning at a variety of firms while in college, she was excited to land at PGIM upon graduating. She says the culture, the wealth of knowledge and breadth of opportunity at PGIM is what’s kept her at the firm.

“It’s a great company for somebody who wants to explore different aspects of the financial services industry,” Shahzad says. She shares that networking opportunities and business resource groups have been particularly enriching for her, as they bring together people from all different backgrounds.

“At PGIM, asking questions, making connections, and taking calculated risks are all encouraged—that helps employees maximize their potential and make the most of their careers.”

Since joining PGIM, Shahzad participated in a two-and-a-half-year rotational program, giving her exposure to several parts of the business and the chance to adapt to new challenges and build her skills. Now, as the business manager for PGIM’s Client Advisory Group, she enjoys handling a variety of responsibilities while leveraging her problem solving and project management skills, such as working on strategic priorities and business reviews, and making connections across the organization, which helps her make progress on the firm’s strategic initiatives and get work done more efficiently. This role has also pushed her to discover her voice, particularly as she is often the most junior person in the room.

Believing She Belongs in the Room

Oftentimes being the most junior person, woman or minority in the room can be intimidating under any circumstances. Shahzad notes that her resilience and courage have grown alongside her belief in the value she brings to the table because of her experience and the encouragement of mentors.

“I’ve grown through advice and mentorship. When entering rooms with senior stakeholders, I remind myself why I belong, why I should be there, and embody that. In the past, I would almost physically make myself disappear, taking more of a passive role in group discussions, but I have gained the confidence to show up more fully.”

One of the leadership positions Shahzad stepped into is as co-lead of the Asian Global Network, an employee affinity group at PGIM. The experience has given her the opportunity to make connections and form peer mentorships across the organization, building her network of support and influence beyond her own group.

“It’s exciting that despite being the most junior of the co-leads, people look to me for recommendations and leadership – and I get to build all these connections. The group has been invaluable to me.”

Shahzad reflects that finding her voice has not only impacted how she sees herself, but how she is viewed by senior leaders.

“It changed how my leadership team sees me. I’m considered someone who can lead and assume bigger responsibilities.”
Shahzad’s personal and professional growth have also influenced how she manages challenging working relationships. “I’m generally a very positive person, but at the same time, I’ve come to recognize and accept that not everyone is going to connect with me, and that’s okay.”

“I’ve learned that you can deliver your opinion, your voice, your vision to a project in a professional way, even when you’re not seeing eye-to-eye with someone. You can still work together productively.”

Embodying the Belief that Women Can do Anything

Shahzad credits her strong female support system as a significant contributor to the confidence she exudes today.

“I believe women are incredibly strong. I have learned so much from the women in my personal and professional life and their experiences. I look at what we’ve accomplished collectively and think, ‘We really can do anything.’”

She hopes to be an example to her two nieces, teaching them how to courageously show up in the world as their authentic selves.

“They are two South Asian females who are going to grow up in the U.S. I want to be able to help them navigate that experience, while also showing them all the powerful things that a woman can do.”

Shahzad notes that part of setting that example is demonstrating her commitment to giving back to the community that has supported her. Serving as the VP-at-Large for the New Jersey Institute of Technology (NJIT) Alumni Board of Directors, her alma mater, she engages with students and actively contributes to the university where she once held a full scholarship.

“Inside, I feel deeply privileged to have such a great life in America. I am passionate about wanting to spend more of my time giving back, and the Alumni Board is one way to do that.” Another important part of Shahzad’s philanthropy ties to her faith – spending time engaged with her local mosque and affiliated community organizations, such as supporting children in need.

Authenticity as an Influencer

Shahzad’s message of empowerment reaches more than the people she works with. In fact, outside of work, Shahzad has gained a following on social media, sharing beauty tips based on her cultural traditions, fashion trends, her adventures around the globe, and more. The success of her platform is evidence of the positive impact that can be achieved by having the courage to stick to your convictions.

“I was bullied as a child for having these beauty rituals, but I persisted because I believed in their benefits and cherished the bonding moments they created with my family. Today, the same hair and skincare secrets and ingredients are becoming popular and normalized in the beauty standards and industry in the U.S. I’m proud of these rituals and passionate about using my platform because I’ve worked hard to create a safe space for women to learn and ask questions while sharing tips from my family and our heritage.”

Shahzad also attributes the success of her platform to the skills she’s attained through her work at PGIM. Applying her project management experience and organizational expertise, Shahzad continually receives positive feedback from brand owners and CEOs about her high level of professionalism.

“I’m really grateful for the experiences I’ve had. I feel empowered that I can have this meaningful career in finance and get to express my more creative side—I can be myself all the time.”

By Jessica Robaire

May Nazareno “Who you are right now in this moment is a gift. It is an offering that is meant to be shared, and you really don’t know how it sparks another person from the other side,” says May Nazareno. “What I’m trying to always ask is: can I create space, within myself and anyone I engage with, can I create the space for us to be truthful and real?”

Nazareno speaks to activating leadership in girls and young women, catalyzing change through storytelling, and how the world needs all of who you are.

Fundraising For The Future Pipeline Of Female Leaders

In her role, Nazareno creates a community of stakeholders across the Northeast who helps IGNITE “build a movement of young women who are ready and eager to become the next generation of political leaders.”

Founded in 2010 to address the lack of political parity in the US, the national organization seeks to increase the number of women as elected officials, appointed to public boards and commissions, and in supporting leadership positions that make it possible for women to occupy those political spaces. By creating multiple entry points for young women to advance in political leadership, IGNITE pushes for a large-scale solution that has the capacity to flood the political pipeline.

Currently, with a team of 17 women who operate under a budget of less than $3 million, IGNITE is the only non-partisan organization in the US that provides sustained community-based training and support to nearly 13,000 + women and girls across 36 states. Currently, a top ten finalist for the $10 million dollar Equality Can’t Wait Challenge, IGNITE’s goal to train 100,000 women each year starting in 2025 could be in reach.

Her Own Bittersweet Experience In Leadership

For Nazareno, advocating for IGNITE is personal. “I had never seen myself as a political person, nor did I think that being part of the student government was an option for me when I was in high school or college.” She admits she fell into student government while in college, “because someone asked me to,” and that the opportunity to run for her university’s vice president position: “was entirely because the secretary of the Student Union just said to me: ‘what do you have to lose?’” Nazareno was met with a lot of resistance from her male peers – and even from other women. “It was the late 90’s and everyone’s questioning if you’re qualified enough.”

Despite Nazareno winning her election by a landslide, and during her tenure, raising significant funds and forging interconnectedness between different cultural and identity-based groups – she faced a hostile environment with no collective support behind her. “What makes IGNITE personal is that the typical IGNITE woman comes to our programs with a desire to solve problems in her community – rarely with a desire to run. And yet, when she goes through our trainings, she learns how to push past her fears of being isolated and pitted against the boys club – because we help her create a ‘girl gang’ of support. I often think what if IGNITE was around when I was in college? What would have happened to my life if I met other women like me, and got the mentorship and the networking needed to navigate a political life? Undoubtedly, I would have considered public service as a calling.”

Though highly encouraged on the path, Nazareno admits she was burned out. Her experience as an elected student leader at her university was surrounded by so much divisiveness – that while she considered pursuing law school – she turned to study playwriting.

“What I cared about the most was figuring out how to foster a shared interconnectedness between students who were passionate about their own identity politics. What were the things that we could understand and respect about each other rather than focusing on what drives us apart? And I knew that law wasn’t going to answer those questions. I didn’t want to tell people what to think. I didn’t want to get caught up in ‘I’m right’ or ‘you’re wrong’. I wanted to come from a place of encouraging deep self-reflection,” she recalls. “At the theatre, you watch conflict and see both sides of the story. You sit in the audience and decide for yourself.”

Catalyzing Dialogue Through a One Woman Show

To the disbelief of her parents, Nazareno rescinded her law school applications and set off to Seattle to become an actor, despite warnings that she’d be cut off from her family.

“I had a bag of clothes and a few books, my laptop, and my yoga mat – and there I was in this hostel in downtown Seattle when 9/11 hit. My Dad used to work at the World Trade Center…,” she laments. “And yet, everyone around me saw this moment as an isolated NYC problem.” She perceived it as both a national and international affair and watched as knee-jerk political reactivity took hold.

“I was impacted by the need to find a way to break through the bubble, not even having words for that. It’s 2001, we have no idea what’s happening, but you hold onto your bubble – to whatever you can to salvage any sense of normalcy,” she said. “The bubble cracked for me in 2003 when I had a family member who was the personal aide to Sérgio Vieira de Mello, the Brazilian United Nations Special Representative for Iraq, go missing.”

De Mello’s death in a hotel bombing in Baghdad and the presumed death of her family member, who then reappeared, catalyzed her to write a one-woman show entitled Dead Woman Home that she took to Seattle, San Francisco, Off-Off-Broadway in New York, and the Philippines. Nazareno’s intention was to challenge the depersonalized perceptions and opinions about war and the Iraqi people that could justify an almost instant reaction to go to war.

“This was my very first play and I wrote it almost twenty years ago. At the time, I wanted to ask audiences: do we realize the implications and the unnecessary incalculable loss of innocent life? Can we sit with that? If I was sharing this play now, what I really want to ask is this: today we live with growing hatred towards others – and often because there’s nothing left to feel anymore. Who among us still have the courage to love?”

Nazareno wanted to hear what people thought about our occupation in Iraq and connected with teens in juvenile detention centers, vets, and high school and college students from low-resourced communities. She intended to reach new audiences who didn’t have access to theatre and create space for civic dialogue that would inspire social action. Indeed, her play galvanized a group of grad students in the Philippines to submit policy strategies to the UN.

“When I met those grad students, I could have never predicted that kind of response to my play. It finally hit me: stories have the power to change people’s perception of themselves and the world around them.”

Flipping The Story to Empower Perspectives

After two years of touring, Nazareno returned to the U.S. and decided to try event management and fundraising. “I was proud that my show broke even during its run. I didn’t have any formal training in the logistics of producing my show. Everything about me was just scrappy and I wanted to formally learn how to raise funds.”

Nazareno landed a job at Stanford, where she was taken under the wing of Lorraine Alexander, who mentored her. “I was lucky. Lorraine was my first teacher and along the way, I met Theda Jackson-Mau and Kim Gerstman who also showed me the ropes. Learning from them ultimately changed my life. I realized that everything up to this point was preparing me to tell stories that inspire people to question their position in the world and what they can do with that position,” says Nazareno, who took a step away from the politics of theater. “In many ways, that’s been the throughline of my work. We all have stories, and our stories give us the capacity to influence and lead, but what does it mean to be a leader and how can we lead in a new way?”

“We are all part of the solution for a more just world,” says Nazareno. “That’s what I’m trying to get across in my work. When I was a teenager, I heard Mother Teresa speak at St. Patrick’s Cathedral and I was moved when she told us that God doesn’t have hands, but our hands.” Nazareno is adamant about IGNITE because the organization trains young women who come from historically marginalized communities to develop their leadership potential and recognize how their lived experiences are essential to creating a democracy that represents our country’s diversity.

“The narrative is often ‘I come from a low-income neighborhood, I was raised by a single parent, my father is in jail, my brother was killed, I didn’t go to an Ivy League school. I’ve got no credentials to lead and zero cash. Who am I to run?” says Nazareno. “And we flip the script and say: who are you not to? We’re here to convince each young woman that her whole life is what makes her qualified to lead. Right now, out of the 520,000 elected offices across the country, women hold 30.5% of municipal offices, 30.9% of seats in state legislatures, and 26.5% of seats in the US Congress. If we dramatically broaden our audience, and just 0.1% of young women run in the next decade we will dramatically increase the pool of female candidates in America.”

“Women are the backbone of our democracy,” Nazareno adds. “We have to shift our understanding and challenge this notion of ‘leadership material.’ We need to show young women that their leadership is needed and there’s a path to realize their ambitions. If we can do that, we can change the way we think about women leaders in America.”

“Right now, there are many people – mostly men – who sit in local government who have little or no visceral sense of what it means to live day-to-day in the communities where our young women live. This is why we train young women to realize that they are the best representation of what their community needs and what needs to change.”

“We’re at this tipping point where it’s abundantly clear that if we want our country to continue to thrive we have to invest in child care, mandate equitable pay for women, keep children and women safe from domestic violence and gun violence as national priorities, and make access to healthcare a fundamental human right – among a whole host of other things. Who knows these issues better than women? That’s why we must elect more women to get a seat at the political table, and that’s why IGNITE gives girls and young women the tools, networks, and resources to succeed in this environment. Not only will they run, they’ll win. And not only will they win, but they stay in the game…” says Nazareno. “In the midst of COVID, 13 IGNITE women ran for office across the country last year. This year, 21 IGNITE women have declared their candidacies. – That’s why I wake up every morning truly inspired.”

Showing Up As Who You Are

Nazareno feels the pandemic has been another huge catalyst to breaking our bubbles, realizing our interconnectedness, how deeply woven our lives are and how dependent we are on one another. Amidst so much divisiveness, she sees that we’re all presented with this question: how are you going to show up to this moment?

When it comes to reflecting on her journey and what motivates her day-to-day, it’s exactly that question. Nazareno’s own father came from humble means and wanted to become a cinematographer. But with his mother’s disapproval, he became the engineer he was expected to be. Nazareno dared the opposite.

“What I carry from his story is that while we make sacrifices and concessions along the way, we can’t forget the spark that lives inside us – especially now. As I see it, that spark is the essence of who you are. And it’s a choice to share it with others or hide it. How am I showing up? What am I bringing to the table?” she questions. “Am I really bringing me, or am I consciously dimming my spark, and if so, for whom – and why? And is it worth it? Or can I trust that bringing all of me – whatever that is in this moment – is enough?”

By: Aimee Hansen