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Words of Wisdom 2025 part 2Part 2 of Words of Wisdom 2025 features women leaders who highlight the power of owning your identity, trusting your instincts, and creating environments where others can excel. They also speak openly about navigating visibility in male-dominated spaces, redefining success on their own terms, and choosing collaboration over competition. Their reflections remind us that leadership is not just about what you achieve, but about how you show up, what you stand for, and the communities you build along the way.

These insights paint a picture of leadership that is grounded, human, and deeply personal. And as we share their perspectives, we also look ahead to how coaching can support leaders in living these principles more fully and navigating their careers with clarity and confidence.

On Being Yourself – Truly:

“I wasn’t out in the first decade of my career at the NFL…Everyone always says, ‘Be yourself,’ but that’s easy when you look and act like the default person at an organization,” she reflects. “It’s a lot more challenging when you are a member of the gay community, or the Black community, or the Latinx community…when I felt confident enough to make the change to come out and be myself unapologetically, I started to thrive.”

Sam Rappaport, CEO Blue80

On Being Bold and Owning What Makes You Unique:

“There’s a big real estate conference I go to every year,” she says. “You queue to board the flight, and it’s just a sea of men in navy suits. I make a point of wearing something bright and own the fact that I’m not the guy in the navy suit. I’m the woman in the bright red dress. It’s an opportunity to be seen.”

She emphasizes, “Being different can make you more memorable. It’s not just about gender. You might be younger, newer, or from a different background. Whatever it is, don’t be afraid to be visible. Have confidence and own it.”

Nicola Free: Managing Director, Head of CRE, EMEA, Wells Fargo

On Fostering Growth Over Competition:

“My Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu coach always says he never hides the best parts of his game because if someone can master it in two weeks and beat him, they deserve to win.” The same philosophy, she says, applies in leadership. “Helping my associate grow, bringing her along and giving her what I can to help her succeed doesn’t threaten me; it strengthens the team, and if I ever move on, she’s ready to step in.”

Marie Bober: Chief Compliance Officer and Senior Counsel, Moelis Asset Management

On Redefining Success:

“Your career is not a ladder, it’s a landscape. Don’t be afraid to move sideways, take a leap, or build something of your own and test a hypothesis. Solving a big problem is where the real growth lies. If you opt to build a hobby business that’s fine too. Just define what success means to you.”

Sally J. Clarke: Entrepreneur and Author

On Leading Collaboratively:

“I used to wait until every idea was perfect. Now, I bring it to the table early. It invites feedback and makes the work better.”

Heather Plumski: President, Stearns Bank

On Leaning on Your Values to Navigate Challenges:

“In facing challenges or change, I always go back to the questions: Am I in the right place? Am I surrounded by the right people? Am I learning? Am I growing? When you can identify core tenets to return to and hold yourself to them, they become a guide for navigating almost anything.”

Johanna Diaz: Global Head of Alternatives Product Strategy, Goldman Sachs

On the Importance of Building Community:

“I’ve moved and started over several times. Managing those transitions successfully is only possible when you make community, when you connect with people, when you find affinity and appreciate differences. The differences are where you learn.”

Angela Cruz: Sales Effectiveness Leader, Sales Excellence, Accenture

On Effective Communication in All Directions:

“With my team that means ensuring they understand the vision, are aligned around the priorities and the mission, and are inspired to do their best work to deliver for our clients. To do that, I spend a lot of time with the team individually and in groups.”

In communicating up and out to executives, regulators, and the board, Young explains, “It’s about taking the complex and making it simple, understanding your audience, and tailoring your message with the right level of detail.”

Nicole Young: Head of CRE Portfolio Management, Wells Fargo

On Building Teams Through Talent:

“High-performing teams are not built by accident; they come from spotting potential others might overlook and giving people the chance to prove themselves. One of my best hires did not meet the checklist on paper, but I knew she had what it would take. She went on to become a star. As Steve Jobs once said, it does not make sense to hire smart people and then tell them what to do. My role is to create the conditions for their talent to shine.”

Deborah Overdeput: Chief Operating Officer, Innovative Systems (FinScan, Enlighten, PostLocate)

Moving Into 2026 With Intention

The experiences shared in this collection show how leadership grows when you are willing to know yourself, trust your values, and stay open to learning. Whether you are choosing to be seen, strengthening communication, empowering talent, or building community, these moments of growth rarely happen by accident. They come from intention and support.

Executive coaching provides a dedicated space to strengthen these muscles. Research shows that coaching enhances emotional intelligence, builds communication agility, and helps leaders make more grounded, aligned decisions. A coach helps you explore what matters most, see patterns you may overlook, and translate your aspirations into meaningful action.

As the year comes to a close and you prepare to enter 2026, this is an ideal moment to pause and consider where you want to focus your energy next. If these stories sparked recognition or inspired a shift in how you see your own leadership, take that as encouragement to invest in yourself. An executive coach can help you clarify your direction, accelerate your development, and step into the new year with confidence and purpose.

Book your free exploratory coaching session today and begin 2026 with intention and momentum.

Kendra Lee“If you are looking for career growth, whether that’s moving up the chain of command, or whether it’s broadening your skill set, you must trust in yourself and take on things you’ve never done before,” says Kendra Lee.

Lee shares how her willingness to take risks, embrace new opportunities, and have the confidence of her convictions not only shaped her career trajectory, but continues to guide her as a leader.

From Lab Tech to CEO

Upon graduating from Texas A&M with a marine sciences degree, Lee never anticipated a career in the chemicals industry. Typically, her field required pursuing a graduate degree, but she was eager to start working and wanted a break from school. Merichem, a family company founded by her grandfather in 1945, offered her an unexpected opportunity – a lab technician role.

However, she quickly realized that lab work was not her passion, and when an internal sales position opened, she seized the chance to explore a different path that better aligned with her interests. Concurrently, she decided to earn an MBA to build a stronger business foundation. As she was completing her MBA, her grandfather passed away, and Merichem’s leadership transitioned to her cousin. Lee credits her cousin with recognizing her strengths and guiding her from sales to finance, hinting at her potential for future leadership.

“I recognized later that by encouraging me to get experience in corporate finance, he was preparing me with the skills and knowledge needed to one day assume leadership of the company.”

Lee’s readiness to embrace new challenges and build her skill set eventually led to her becoming Chairman and CEO in 2013. In leading Merichem, Lee is thrilled to continue the legacy of sustainability that is at the core of what the company does.

“From as early as 1945 Merichem has been focused on taking products that would otherwise be classified as hazardous waste and cleaning them up or reusing them to make them better for the overall environment, fitting a need for the industry.”

Leading Change for Business Growth

Lee’s entrepreneurial spirit shines through as she fearlessly leads change at the company, knowing it’s essential for business growth and adapting to industry needs.

“It’s about having the right leadership team to drive change, addressing operational issues for greater efficiency, and implementing necessary adjustments despite initial resistance. Ultimately, people realize these changes are beneficial. I see myself as a change agent who enjoys looking for ways to improve and then executing those processes.”

Lee recognizes that change can come with uncertainty, but she is energized by navigating the unknown to get to an outcome that is better for the business. For example, Lee recently led the divestiture of a part of the business that removed sulfur compounds from liquids to help provide cleaner fuel sources in the petrochemical industry.

She explains, “part of the reason we divested was because we recognized the business’ growth potential and importance, but Merichem was not the right owner. It needed new ownership to be able to grow and take advantage of its place as one of the leaders in removing sulfur within the oil and gas space.”

Taking Risks and Trusting in Yourself

Lee’s willingness to take risks and embrace new opportunities served her well in progressing from lab tech to CEO and clearly continues to drive her as a leader.

She advocates, “you have to take that risk. Be willing to trust in yourself and know that you can figure it out. Because otherwise you become paralyzed, and you won’t take that next step.”

Taking the leap to try something new also creates momentum in building the skills to get to the next level.

“You’re never going to get more experience or broaden your skill set if you don’t say, ‘I’ve got to do this. I’ve proven to myself I can learn things, so let’s try it.’ It’s trusting in yourself.”

Lee notes that trusting in herself also builds confidence, an important element of leadership development.

“I have a strong self-confidence that comes across, even though I’m not inclined to self-promotion. My confidence helps in addressing difficult subjects head-on with clarity, admitting when I don’t know something, which adds value and credibility.”

As a woman leader in the male-dominated industry of oil and gas, Lee shares that it took time and experience for her to build that confidence when walking into spaces where she was one of the only women. She adds, “as I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to acknowledge my strengths and talents, and can say, ‘it doesn’t matter that I’m a woman, I have just as much to contribute to the conversation as a man does’.”

Being a Leader who Listens

Lee is a collaborative leader who listens to her team and makes a point of cultivating an environment where they feel safe to give honest feedback. She finds that it is essential to have that space for dialogue to get the best ideas out there to make an informed decision.

“One thing I learned very early on is that I’m not the smartest person in the room. And while the decision may be mine to take, there is a lot of other valuable input that I need to hear and consider before I decide. In the end it will help me make a better decision.”

Creating a culture that allows for constructive feedback and even disagreement is important to Lee. Beyond being an active listener, Lee takes the perspective that “opinions are never wrong as it’s all shaped by how we see the world and where we were raised…it’s acknowledging that there is validity to what people are saying, even if it may not be the right answer at the right time.”

Lee also looks for a diversity of opinion and is intentional in creating a team that reflects many viewpoints.

“The more diversity you can get in that thought group, whether it’s gender, race, or ethnicity. the better your decisions because everybody comes at it a little bit differently.”

Passionate about Community and Family

Outside of work, Lee is deeply committed to her community. She serves on the board of Kids Meals, a non-profit organization that provides daily free lunches to children under five who experience food insecurity, as they are not yet part of the school system.

“Currently, they’re serving about 8,000 children a day. It’s remarkable the impact they can have on the community, helping to set these kids up for success when they do get to school,” she notes.

In addition to her community involvement, Lee manages a busy schedule with her active teenagers. She is grateful for the support of nearby family members who assist in getting her children to their activities when she or her husband are in meetings or traveling. Despite her demanding role as a company executive, she reflects, “It’s the same amount of stress as any working parent faces. Having a C-suite title does not make it any more difficult.”

To unwind, Lee enjoys vacationing with her family, cooking, and gardening.

By Jessica Robaire