Yes. There are endless free lunches, dinners and drinks if you do the conference circuit.
Are trade shows and conferences really worth going to? Every day there seems to an invitation in my inbox to be somewhere.
Last week the SIBOS show hit Boston. SIBOS is to men in financial technology what Christmas is to the rest of us. Gifts and drunk people.
Squeezy stress balls, free cocktail vouchers, karaoke hosted by Norwegian or Swedish banks. All in the name of straight through processing, clearing and settlement and all things IT for finance.
The topics discussed at SIBOS are not really life changing at all, but people in the office are ready to poison their co- worker’s coffee to make sure they get a spot.
The best thing about it is that it’s a traveling circus so some years you can get a really good vacation out of it. Sydney, Singapore, San Francisco and Stockholm have all been memorable. People have had to take many sick days after to recover from the jetlag and the booze.
Did Boston deliver the SIBOS experience? If you went, let me know who won the karaoke contest.
Is there such a thing as a free lunch?
Pipeline, What's OnYes. There are endless free lunches, dinners and drinks if you do the conference circuit.
Are trade shows and conferences really worth going to? Every day there seems to an invitation in my inbox to be somewhere.
Last week the SIBOS show hit Boston. SIBOS is to men in financial technology what Christmas is to the rest of us. Gifts and drunk people.
Squeezy stress balls, free cocktail vouchers, karaoke hosted by Norwegian or Swedish banks. All in the name of straight through processing, clearing and settlement and all things IT for finance.
The topics discussed at SIBOS are not really life changing at all, but people in the office are ready to poison their co- worker’s coffee to make sure they get a spot.
The best thing about it is that it’s a traveling circus so some years you can get a really good vacation out of it. Sydney, Singapore, San Francisco and Stockholm have all been memorable. People have had to take many sick days after to recover from the jetlag and the booze.
Did Boston deliver the SIBOS experience? If you went, let me know who won the karaoke contest.
Intrepid Women: A Power Lunch at Peter Luger’s
Intrepid Women SeriesSo I thought, what better way to kick off the series than a review of my recent dining experience at Peter Luger’s, the legendary Brooklyn steakhouse that has defined the experience of power lunches and expense account dinners in New York for over 120 years.
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Need a break? How about an Ayurvedic Retreat?
Extraordinary LivesContributed by Jessica Titlebaum
Last year around this time, I was in bad shape and desperately needed a nice long break from work. My feet were killing me from wearing heels for the past two years. Most nights, I was snoring in the my cubicle loud enough for my boss to tap me on the shoulder and tell me to go home. I was exhausted, work was overwhelming and my vacation time was calling my name…
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10 Tips for Landing your Dream Job in Finance or Law
Next LevelGetting a job at an investment bank or corporate law firm can be super competitive, even if you have all of the right credentials to get your foot in the door. So it’s important to have every possible advantage when you are going through the job search, application and interview process.
To that end, I sat down with a top headhunter from a national recruiting firm and a director of recruiting at a large corporate firm and talked to them about some common mistakes that candidates make and ways that candidates have impressed them.
Based on their experience and my own, here are ten tips that should improve your chances of landing your dream job:
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Consumable communication
Voices of ExperienceThree times in the last week, I have had the same déjà vu-inducing experience. First, when I was helping a client prepare a high-tech conference speech, second, when writing an article about dark pools of liquidity in the European equity trading landscape (welcome to my world), and finally, while listening to a friend bemoan her ineffective interdepartmental meetings. My friend perfectly summed up the common thread in these experiences: “How are we supposed get anything done if we can’t understand a word anyone says?”
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Beware of the Telephone Jerk…
Expert AnswersJust thinking back on my conversation with this guy makes me cringe. A couple of weeks ago, one of my co-workers gave me the contact name of a friend of hers, and suggested I interview him for an article I was writing. I called him up to let him know that I was going to be in his neighborhood, and to ask him if he would like to meet up and discuss his views.
In general, these informational interview calls go pretty well – either people are able to meet with you and are pleased at your interest, or they’re too busy so they politely decline. Oh no, not this guy. He made it clear that I was wasting his time, and used such a rude and obnoxious tone with me that you would have thought I was a telemarketer calling him in the middle of his Sunday night dinner.
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Upcoming Events
NewsWhether you’re looking to learn, network, or just have a good time, one of these upcoming events is sure to be right up your alley.
The H-Bomb
Breaking the Glass CeilingWhen I was in law school, my girlfriends and I had a favorite non-scientific experiment. We would go out to bars in Boston, meet a group of friendly guys, and tell them one of two things.
1) We were yoga instructors, dental hygienists or kindergarten teachers.
2) We were in our last year at Harvard Law School, headed off to work at big corporate law firms in New York.
When we told them that we worked in the first set of very worthy yet non-threatening professions, the men smiled, flirted, and offered to buy us drinks.
“That’s why you have such a nice smile!”
“If I was naughty, would you make me stay after class?”
“Wow, you must be really flexible.”
Requests for our phone numbers were common. Results were uniformly positive.
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Why Working Mothers Lie
Breaking the Glass CeilingI’m a liar. Actually, I’m a serial liar.
I refuse to admit that I’ve been late or absent from work because the kids have chicken pox/flu/a broken collarbone, or the babysitter didn’t show up. I would rather lie to my boss and cite train delays or urgent meetings.
Here’s the harsh truth about why: It is simply not acceptable admit that you are giving anything less than 100% at the office because you happen to be a mother. Any excuse, including chronic flakiness, a borderline drinking problem, or being abducted by aliens, is better than confessing problems on the mommy front.
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Ten Tips to a Healthy Office
Next LevelFresh from The Times’ Body & Soul segment, the following ten tips will help you get the most out of your work day.
1. Avoid office affairs
2. Go home earlier
3. Use the stairs
4. Move the computer screen
5. Buy some potted plants
6. Ration e-mail
7. Let it all hang out
8. Decorate the office nicely
9. Choose your desk wisely
10. Consider going solo and out on your own
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