Nancy Stern

By Jessica Darmoni

“The (trading) industry is built on people working together,” explains Nancy Stern. “You have to think of your interactions as long-term relationships. Something that makes sense in the short term may not serve you—or others—over time. You always have to ask: what are the unintended consequences?”

That long-term view has shaped Stern’s approach at career inflection points, business strategies and regulatory guidance. After first speaking with Stern over 10 years ago, The Glass Hammer sat down with her to talk about where she is now.

Today, as Managing Director and General Counsel of Simplex Trading, Stern stands at the intersection of market structure, regulation, technology, and leadership. She is the first, and only, lawyer at the 20-year-old market-making firm, a role that requires both precision and perspective.

Building Legal Infrastructure in a High-Speed Market

Simplex Trading operates as a market maker in the fast-moving world of equity options, where milliseconds matter and volumes have exploded. They continuously buy and sell options to capture the bid-ask spread. The firm is connected to 17 exchanges and has traders on the trading floor at Cboe Global Markets.

Over the past decade, the equity options market has transformed dramatically. Retail participation has surged. Trading volumes have exploded. Zero-day-to-expiration (0DTE) options have compressed time horizons to a single day—sometimes blurring the line between investment and entertainment for retail traders. In this environment, risk evolves quickly.

“We are in the business of taking risks,” Stern says. “My job is evaluating those risks. You have to understand the full picture—but most importantly, you have to adapt.”

Simplex historically relied on outside counsel. As the business grew more sophisticated, leadership recognized the need for an in-house legal leader to manage risk proactively, implement processes, and help shape culture from within.

Stern stepped into that role not only to mitigate legal exposure, but to build systems that support sustainable growth.

Her mandate includes implementing new procedures, strengthening governance, and aligning culture with regulatory expectations, all while keeping pace with accelerating technological change, including the integration of AI tools that are reshaping industries at unprecedented speed.

“The pace of change continues to accelerate,” she notes. “The tools are new but in many ways, the challenges are iterations of what we’ve faced before. That’s what makes it exciting to put these new tools into practice.”

From General Counsel to CEO, and Back Again

The Glass Hammer first met Stern in 2015 as Executive Vice President, General Counsel and Secretary of Allston Trading. She went on to become CEO of the proprietary trading firm, which was then acquired by DV Trading in December 2021. After the acquisition she joined futures commission merchant and clearing firm, ABN Amro, as Chief of Staff and General Counsel until 2024.

Her earlier career includes partner roles at Katten Muchin Rosenman LLP and Gardner Carton & Douglas LLP (now Faegre Drinker Biddle & Reath LLP), where she built the legal foundation that would later support her executive leadership.

Transitioning from General Counsel to CEO required more than technical skill, it required self-awareness.

“Coaching was very important to me,” Stern reflects. As she prepared to step into the CEO role, she worked with an executive coach and encouraged her team to do the same. “Understanding your strengths and weaknesses is essential. Sometimes you need someone outside your organization to help you think clearly.”

That investment in self-knowledge became a catalyst for growth.

Resilience, Realism, and Knowing When to Walk Away

Leadership, especially in high-stakes financial environments, inevitably includes moments of doubt. Stern approaches setbacks with a problem-solver’s mindset, and with realism.

“You have to ask yourself: Is this a situation I can improve? Or should I walk away? Can I make this better, or would someone else do a better job?”

She describes herself as loyal and deeply committed however she also recognizes limits. Not every system can be fixed from within and not every environment is the right one.

For women navigating leadership roles, that distinction is powerful: resilience does not mean staying at all costs. It means making thoughtful, courageous decisions about where you can create impact.

Mentorship in All Directions

When asked who influenced her most, Stern doesn’t name a single figure.

“I’ve been fortunate to have mentors at every stage and from all directions,” she says. “Senior people, junior people, peers.”

She learned the craft of law from colleagues in law firms. She learned how to lead organizations by listening to those who understood the pulse of the business and the pain points of its people.

What does she value most?

“Anyone willing to speak the truth, even when it’s difficult.”

Now, she pays that forward. Mentorship is one of the impacts she most hopes to create.

“There are people with tremendous talent who just need guidance on specific questions. If I can help them move forward, that’s incredibly satisfying.”

What the Future Demands from Leaders

As markets evolve, so must leadership. Stern believes future leaders will need empathy and the ability to put others first.

“Strong listening skills, sound judgement and the ability to sift through vast information to make principled decisions will be demanded of our leaders,” she emphasizes.

Stern also believes that execution, the discipline to turn vision into reality will be crucial.

“Vision without execution doesn’t count,” she says.

In an era of accelerating AI adoption, shrinking time horizons, and increasingly complex market participation, those human-centered skills may matter more than ever.

Leading Into the Future

What inspires her now?

“New tools. New experiences. New ways to approach old challenges.”

Despite decades of experience across law firms, trading floors, executive suites, and boardrooms, Stern remains energized by evolution.

Her leadership is not about chasing speed but about thoughtful adaptation, long-term relationships as well as clear-eyed risk assessment and helping others grow along the way.

In industries often defined by volatility, Stern’s career is a reminder that sustainable leadership is built not only on expertise, but on empathy, integrity, and the courage to continually adapt.

coaching investmentIn Part 2 of this series, we looked inside an executive coaching engagement, including how it is structured, how goals are set, and what to expect over the course of the engagement. However, no matter how well designed the process or the competency of the coach, executive coaching only delivers results when leaders actively engage in it.

Coaching is not something that happens to you. It is a partnership that depends on how you show up, what you practice between sessions, and how intentionally you apply insights in real-world situations. This final section focuses on how to maximize the value of coaching once you decide to invest so that the time, energy, and resources you commit translate into meaningful, lasting impact.

Come to Sessions Prepared

Treat coaching sessions as some of the most important meetings on your calendar. They are one of the few spaces designed entirely around you and your growth.

Before each session, take time to reflect on what has happened since your last conversation. What situations tested you? Where did you feel effective, or stuck? What commitments did you make, and what progress did you notice?Clarifying one or two priorities you want to focus on allows the session to go deeper, faster.

Your coach can work with whatever you bring, but the leaders who gain the most from coaching arrive with intention, not just updates.

Be Genuinely Open and Honest

Executive coaching works because it creates a confidential space for conversations that rarely happen elsewhere. It is the place where uncertainty, doubt, frustration, and missteps can be examined without consequence.

If you find yourself showing up polished, guarded, or overly strategic, pause. The most meaningful breakthroughs often come from exploring the things you hesitate to say out loud, like patterns you see but have not named, decisions you are avoiding, or feedback you are struggling to integrate.

This is not about oversharing or self-criticism. It is about speaking truth to what matters to move towards meaningful growth. Coaching is most powerful when it reflects what is actually happening, not what you wish were true.

Implement Between Sessions

The real work of coaching happens between conversations. Sessions create clarity and direction; progress comes from what you practice afterward.

This might include testing new leadership behaviors in meetings, applying decision-making frameworks in real time, soliciting feedback from colleagues, or carving out space for reflection. Small experiments done consistently are what turn insight into sustained change.

Coaching is active, not passive. Leaders who treat sessions as stand-alone conversations miss much of the value. Those who apply, reflect, and adjust between sessions see momentum build quickly.

Give Yourself Time to Grow

Leadership development is not linear. New habits take practice and perspective shifts happen gradually. Confidence grows through repetition, not revelation.

Most executive coaching engagements run three to six months at a minimum for this reason. Expect progress, but not perfection. Some weeks will feel energizing and clear; others may surface tension or discomfort. That is not a sign something is not working—it is often a sign you are working at the right level.

Consistency matters more than intensity. Small, sustained changes compound over time.

Share Your Development Strategically

While coaching conversations remain confidential, being open about your commitment to development can be beneficial. Letting your manager or select colleagues know that you are engaged in coaching signals ownership of your growth and often creates positive accountability.

It is not necessary to share details, but even naming the capabilities you are working on, like strategic thinking, executive presence, or navigating complexity, can reinforce alignment and invite support.

When done thoughtfully, this transparency normalizes leadership development and reinforces that growth is not remedial, it is expected.

Invest in Yourself

Executive coaching requires an investment of time, focus, and financial resources. The question leaders rightly ask is whether it is worth it.

Research consistently suggests that it is, but the return is not purely financial.  Many of the leaders we profiled here on theglasshammer.com pointed to lasting and meaningful impacts of executive coaching such as enhanced emotional intelligence, more effective communication, embracing a growth mindset, and an improved ability to flex one’s leadership style. Coaching can help leaders avoid years of frustration, misalignment, or stalled growth by accelerating learning that might otherwise come only through trial and error.

Organizations recognize this value as well. Companies that invest in leadership development through coaching often see higher engagement, stronger retention, and more resilient leadership pipelines.

Your Next Steps

If you are considering executive coaching, here is how to move forward thoughtfully.

Step 1: Clarify What You Want

Be specific about what would make coaching valuable for you. “Become a better leader” is too broad. “Strengthen my strategic voice in executive forums” or “prepare for a larger role within the next 12–18 months” gives focus and direction.

Your goals may relate to advancement, transition, leadership effectiveness, team performance, or sustainability. Clarity at the outset helps ensure the coaching engagement is designed to serve what matters most.

Step 2: Explore Support Options

Start by looking inside your organization. Many companies sponsor executive coaching for leaders, particularly at moments of increased scope, transition, or growth. If coaching is not already offered, raising the conversation with HR or your manager can be a productive first step, especially when framed around leadership effectiveness and business impact.

At Evolved People Coaching, we partner with both individuals and organizations, tailoring engagements to leadership goals, business realities, and development needs.  We offer assessments, including qualitative 360 feedback reports, to ground the work in data, providing a clear picture of strengths, patterns, and opportunities that inform a focused coaching plan from the start.

Whether sponsored by your organization or self-funded, the goal is the same: a coaching relationship designed to support meaningful, sustained growth.

Step 3: Commit Fully

Once you decide coaching is right for you, commit to the process. Protect time for sessions and reflection, engage honestly with the work, and apply what you are learning consistently.

Leaders who approach coaching with curiosity and discipline see results faster and more reliably.

Step 4: Measure and Adjust

Effective coaching includes regular check-ins on progress. Are you moving toward your stated goals? What changes are you noticing? Where do you want to go deeper?

These conversations keep the work aligned and ensure the engagement continues to serve your evolving needs.

The Choice That Changes Everything

Talent and hard work matter, but they are rarely enough on their own. The leaders who grow most effectively are intentional about their development. They seek feedback. They invest in perspective. They build capabilities before they are urgently needed.

You can navigate leadership through trial and error, learning slowly and reacting as challenges arise. Or you can engage a strategic partner who helps you think more clearly, act more intentionally, and grow with purpose.

If you are ready to explore what executive coaching could look like for you or your organization, schedule a complimentary exploratory conversation with Nicki Gilmour, founder and CEO of theglasshammer.com and Evolved People Coaching here: BOOK SESSION

Katherine Kirkpatrick BosKatherine Kirkpatrick Bos, General Counsel of StarkWare, is excited about zero knowledge proof technology (ZKP), a revolutionary tool in cryptography. She explains that ZKP allows people to prove something is true without revealing underlying information.

ZKPs enable verification without disclosure—complete, sound, and private. While often discussed in the context of blockchain scalability and transaction speed, their possible use extends far beyond cryptocurrencies. Healthcare records, voting systems, and government services all rely on forms of verification that routinely overshare personal data. Zero-knowledge technology offers a path to redesign those systems around privacy by default.

“StarkWare is deep, cutting-edge technology,” she says. “These are some of the smartest cryptographers and developers in the world.”

This potential drew Kirkpatrick Bos to StarkWare, a company building cryptographic systems at the frontier of zero-knowledge technology. The work is not only about present-day challenges. StarkWare has also developed quantum-resistant technology—an increasingly urgent priority as advances in quantum computing threaten existing cryptographic standards.

“Quantum computing could break a lot of what we rely on today,” she notes. “Quantum-resistant code makes that significantly harder.”

Choosing the Right Room

Prior to joining StarkWare, Kirkpatrick Bos was in listed derivatives on digital assets. She was the Chief Legal Officer of Cboe Digital, a U.S. regulated exchange and clearinghouse for spot crypto and crypto derivatives markets; and General Counsel of Maple Finance, a capital efficient corporate debt marketplace which facilitates crypto institutional borrowing via liquidity pools funded by Decentralized Financial (DeFi) ecosystems. Kirkpatrick Bos was also a partner in the Special Matters and Government Investigations practice at King & Spalding.

Kirkpatrick Bos is candid about career inflection points. She has experienced the frustration of executing a plan within a business that wasn’t growing as expected—and realizing she wasn’t in the room where the real decisions were being made.

“That’s a difficult place to be,” she says. “Especially if you believe you could be doing more.”

The response, in her view, is rarely comfort. It is movement.

“It’s much easier to stay where you are than to start over,” she notes. “But if you want growth, you have to take that risk.”

She is especially direct about this advice for women, who are often encouraged—explicitly or implicitly—to value stability over advancement.

“I’ve always approached my career strategically. You have to understand what’s next.”

Mentorship, Integrity, and Judgment

Kirkpatrick Bos credits much of her professional grounding to early mentors, including a senior partner she worked with for over a decade at King & Spalding.

“He could be prickly,” she recalls, “but he inspired loyalty through integrity.”

That lesson—never compromise ethical standards—has stayed with her. So has the importance of seeing what is possible. Senior women who pushed boundaries in their careers made abstract ambition tangible.

“If you see it, you can be it,” she emphasizes. “If others are doing it, it’s not impossible.”

The guidance she now imparts is unsentimental and practical: protect your principles, make hard decisions when required, put your family first, and outsource what you can.

Leadership in an Age of AI

As artificial intelligence reshapes professional services, Kirkpatrick Bos remains skeptical of claims that judgment can be automated.

“AI is a powerful tool,” she acknowledges. “But it can’t replace instinct.”

Over her career, she has seen lawyers develop competence through experience—and others who never do.

“Judgment is hard to teach. Problem-solving, instinct, knowing when something doesn’t feel right—that still matters.”

As General Counsel, much of her role is translation: helping regulators understand technology, and helping technologists understand the law.

“You have to listen carefully,” she says. “Then explain things in a way the other side can actually understand.”

Why It Endures

There are always difficult days. Seniority does not eliminate friction; it reframes it.

What sustains Kirkpatrick Bos is the belief that the work itself matters—that she is helping shape the legal and regulatory framework for technologies that will define the next generation.

She imagines a future where people look back in disbelief at how much personal information was once routinely shared to prove a single fact.

Innovative technology, she believes, does more than improve systems. It keeps people engaged, even when the work is hard.

And in that sense, zero knowledge is not just a cryptographic concept—it is a blueprint for more thoughtful leadership.

By Jessica Darmoni