by Sima Matthes (New York City)

In one of my colleague’s cubicles, there a cartoon by the brilliant and irreverent Scott Adams hanging over the desk. The cartoon has his protagonist, Dilbert, remarking to the company’s blood drive sponsor “You’ve already taken everything I have…” and the sponsor saying “There’s a six pint minimum,” or something like that.

Undoubtedly, we’ve all felt that we’ve given everything to our company, our co-workers, and our bosses at one time or another — but at least we had the weekends to look forward to. In Tammy Erickson’s recent article on the Harvard Business Publications web page, she asked the audacious and provocative question of whether we even need weekends. Her point is that in this age of telecommuting and what she calls “asynchronous” work, where we can work anywhere, at anytime, weekends as they currently are defined may not be as necessary as once thought. “I’d like to see companies re-think the idea of a pre-set “week day” and a “weekend” and look instead at which jobs actually need synchronous activity with what frequency. If the job doesn’t require it, why not let the worker decide his or her own schedule?”

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by Pamela Weinsaft (New York City)

In Rebecca Shambaugh’s book, It’s Not A Glass Ceiling, It’s a Sticky Floor, she identifies seven key areas where women get “stuck”. Chief among them—and no surprise—is striking the balance between our work and personal lives.

She says if our lives are out of control, and checking to make sure that we’re working for a purpose or just for the sake of working. “Living a balanced life,” she says, “fosters the resilience we need to be successful leaders,” yet “83 percent of women with jobs [agree] that they have a hard time balancing work and family.”

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by Pamela Weinsaft (New York City)

The issue of work/life balance presents challenges for employers as well as employees. As there is no one-size-fits-all set of benefits that would satisfy all employees, the smart companies—and the ones that are successful—are the ones that put in place a smorgasbord of benefits that support employees in their quest to juggle home and work responsibilities.

Within its 100 Best Companies list, Fortune magazine highlights ten companies that have created cultures and offered benefits that afford their employees the best work/life balance. Interestingly, although many of the 100 Best Companies were from the Fortune 500, only one Fortune 500 company was among the best companies for work/life balance in 2008. Read more

by Elizabeth Harrin

After a day at the office, the last thing you want to do is come home, switch on your personal computer and start all over again. But if you need additional qualifications to get ahead and don’t want to or can’t afford to quit and go to school full-time, fitting in a few hours of study at night is one way to do it – trust me, I’ve been doing it on and off (mostly on) for the last eight years. Three of those years involved eating every dinner at home on a tray, as the dining room table was covered with insurance textbooks, draft essays and sample exam papers. When guests came around I swept the whole lot into a huge pile on the sideboard. Clearly, I was never a great hostess.

I was, however, a great student. I don’t mean that I always got top grades. But I did approach studying like any other work-related task: I scheduled time for it, and I always got my papers in by the deadline. And I worked full-time. I’m no super-woman, by any stretch of the imagination. Anyone can fit studying around a full-time job, if they so desire.

Here are seven tips to make the process easier:

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by Sima Matthes

Is there a glass ceiling or isn’t there? This is the subject of much debate, even here at The Glass Hammer. The term “glass ceiling” is an overused expression, found in research around the world, as far afield as Bahrain and even Australia. I’ve been delighted to find decrees of the death of this idea, even as I’m unsure whether there’s anything to celebrate or mourn.

Talking about the glass ceiling with other women, the responses fall into two categories. It’s either like the Supreme Court’s definition of pornography—we know it when we see it—or like God—you don’t have to see it to know it’s there.

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By Bailey McCann

61056391_31343afdc6_m_1.jpgSunday’s New York Times ran an interesting take on the fallout from the subprime crisis and economic slowdown: the rich are less rich. While the rest of us probably aren’t crying any tears over this development, the ramifications of the rich being less rich is a study in how a crisis in the financial markets may be a catalyst in forcing all of us to pare down, clean up and come out on the other side of this with a whole different perspective and perhaps a little more balance.
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Contributed by Karen Elizaga of www.forwardoptions.com. Karen is a life and career coach for women and girls.

639615047_44d29eceb3_m.jpgAll too often, the achiever/overachiever in us zealously books appointment after appointment and takes on one commitment after another. At work, we feel compelled to be the “go to” woman in hopes that we will make significant career strides and appear to be infallible in the face of multiple and difficult challenges. Unfortunately, our ambitions and desires to excel can take a toll on our health, emotions and personal relationships.

Admittedly a career can be important, and it may be necessary for you to earn a paycheck. However, let’s consider work in the context of the rest of our existence. It can allow us to feel important and necessary and if we consistently deliver superior work, the financial reward may be significant. But should career concerns pervade our entire existence? Definitely not.

A balanced life allows us to recharge and increases both our overall happiness and work productivity. If you are content with your existence outside the office, you can channel that positive energy to fuel an upward career trajectory.

The following are five tips for creating a life in balance. Use them and see how much more satisfied you are in all aspects of your existence – your emotional, physical and intellectual realms.
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